What is Happiness?
We all want to be happy yet many of us fail to really define what this is and what it would look like in our life. Often, we chase goals or achievements that we think will make us happy but when we get there we often find we are not.
Happiness comes when we take care of ourselves and work to meet our needs both internally and externally. How you meet these needs will be an individual journey. You do not have to wait for happiness to show up you can work to cultivate it in your life.
What Is Happiness
The field of positive psychology has worked hard to define what happiness is and how one can cultivate more often it in their life. Dr. Martin Seligman the founder of positive psychology created a model of what the “Good Life” entails. He outlined the “Good Life” in the PERMA model of well-being.
PERMA Model of Well-Being
Happiness is a concept like the weather. There is not one thing that makes up weather but rather several different elements like temperature, humidity, wind, etc. The same is said for happiness, it has a number of different components. The PERMA model of well-being outlines these different factors. When you work to meet them then you will increase your well-being. If you do not meet them then you will not have much happiness.
This is the element many people equate with happiness. Feeling such as joy, comfort, warmth, contentment, and pleasure do accompany happiness, but they are just one part of it. It is also more than just the emotions it goes deeper into enjoyment. When we are doing things that bring us a sense of satisfaction and fulfillment like our work or hobbies, activities happiness follows. Doing acts of kindness for others can also increase positive emotions.
This involves being absorbed or engrossed in something. It is the experience of getting lost in a work, book, music, conversation, artwork or living in one’s own world. This form of engagement has a positive impact on one intelligence, skills, and emotions. Engagement brings about more happiness. It allows you access more flow where space and time can disappear for a short while.
The third element of well-being relates to our desire and need for love, attention, connection, affection, and interaction. As humans, we are social creatures, and we need to feel like we belong. Having healthy supportive relationships is a key part of happiness.
Life is nothing if we do not have meaning. Many people try to replace this key part of happiness with money and material things, but it does not work. We are only happy when we have meaning and purpose in our lives. Finding meaning in your work and at home can help you access more happiness.
We take pride in our achievements. It is these accomplishments that helps us build confidence and self-esteem When we achieve our goals it can make us feel good and helps us to become motivated to do more.
5 Ways to Increase Your Happiness
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